worrying about xanders mom
So Alexander got to spend Christmas with him mom in the states (he was there for a week) when he got back everything was different, he wont tell me when he is having bad dreams and if i ask he says he's having good ones, but then he tells everyone else about his bad dreams (that's been going on since before he left) then he has started to want to take Anthony away, he was playing iron man on our bed and i was fine with it then he said (to me) that iron man was going to kill me (so i told him then iron man is not welcome in our house) he grabbed his dads hand ans said come on daddy were not playing with her. Anthony didn't move and just stayed. since he's been home he doesn't want to share with me but then he'll turn around and tell me he loves me and hug me. then today i heard him crying (during his nap) and i walked up and asked what was wrong he said he didn't want mommy to let him down (big question mark in my head) i told him mommy wont let you down they aren't allowed its there job not to. but then i was on facebook and her status says paper, papers,papers my hand will be cramped at the end of the day, and shes had other that have worried me and Anthony. I'm starting to think she gonna try something. what do we do. i feel like Alexander feels it. i don't want a 4 year old to have to worry about adult stuff i feel like all he should have to worry about is his toys and being the super hero for a day that he wants to be. any advice???