why so hard
Why is it so hard for everyone to be happy. I know the kids have to adjust and the adults have to, but seriously I wish the kids would treat me as nice as they do other adults. I'm not the one that made their mom leave their dad, because she cheated on him. I'm not to blaim for any of that. When I was first in their lives they loved me. It was great we had fun. NOw that they are 15 and 12 (daughter and son) they act like it's my job to clean house, cook dinner, and pick up after them. They can't even talk to me like I'm in the room. They ask their father what is for dinner, when they know i cook it! He even tells them that but the next night they do it again. They have to start every sentence with Dad, like I can't listen to what they are going to say. Why does it have to be so hard. People say, o they will apprecaite you whe they get older, but the older they get the worse it gets. They apprecaited me more when they were little. Why is it hard. And it makes it hard on me and the husband. However, he sees it, so he isn't blind and he apoligizes for them, but he shouldn't. And we agree that we come first , because in 6 years when they are out of the house we will still have each other. Thanks had to vent a little. Does anyone else feel the same?