Stepdaughter has unusual feelings for her father
My sixteen and a half year old stepdaughter moved in with us 2 1/2 years ago. After moving in, we started catching her in lies and manipulative behavior. We tried counseling and nothing worked. We battled with this. About four months ago, my husband finally listened to me about the possibility that his daughter had unnatural feelings for him. He confronted her and she admitted that she was in love with him. She further told me that she wanted to have sex with her father and was doing everything she could to get me and her brother out of the house so she could have her father in this sick way. We put her into therapy and ended up having to have her committed to a inpatient hospital for five days due to threats against the family and her running away. Since that time, my husband hasnt been alone with her and he doesnt hug her. I am very uncomfortable and I am having a hard time moving past everything she has said and done. Now the therapist is saying that my husband should start hugging her and start being alone with her. I dont think I can handle those things right now. If anyone has any advice, I would greatly appreaciate it. I just dont want to lose my marriage. My husband has been my best friend for 18 years.