Although I don't live with my boyfriend just yet, but will do hopefully when I have really decided what I really want to do. I see him on a weekend basis. We sometimes see his daughers, they don't live with him. One has a daugher and lives with her boyf. The other lives with her mother. I am concerned with them, the daughters are very overweight and don't do anything about it. They never do any actitivties and are very lazy. They do crisis my son as my son does alot of sports and I feed him good food. The daughters eat rubbish sometimes. My bf said that he has no control over this as they don't live with him anymore but even when they did, he couldn't have any control over them being overweight. I want to help them but they are too lazy to help themselves. Is there anything I can do to help them lose weight, I don't want to upset them. My bf has said that the older daughter is trying to lose weight by eating healthier food. But I have noticed when we went over to visit them, there were boxes of leftovers pizzas. I mentioned it to my bf, he said that it's nothing to do with us. But he's not helping the situtation as they will end up killing themselves. They both have lovely faces but they are spoiling thier looks by not looking after themselves. I wonder if it's to do with them upbringing that has made them like it. My bf told me when they were small, they were never interesting in any actititves. As my son does alot of sports, and cubs. My bf thinks that I am doing too much for my son with all the actitives that he does weekly. I don't see any problem with that as my son enjoys them. I am trying to support my bf but he won't have any of it and said that it's nothing we can do about it as they are both now 19 and 20 and have thier own lives.