Hi. I need some advice. My 8 year old stepson has adhd and odd. We have had him in counseling since he was 4. BM is bipolar and doesn't help our situation. He doesn't listen, is disrespectful, throws huge tantrums over small things, and has gotten physically aggressive with me and his 3 year old half brother. My husband is at the end of his rope. He said something the other day about sending him to live somewhere else, although I don't know where since his mom has an even harder time than we do. Last year, he had problems in school although that isn't the case this year. He is on medication that helps a little, but our house is total chaos. We have tried every parenting technique the counselors have suggested. Nothing is working. My 3 year old is starting to act out. I am assuming it is due to the stress in the house as he is normally very well behaved and sweet. I am on the verge of leaving my husband because I am so stressed. We've tried positive reinforcement and praise, rewards, taking things away, time outs, but his behavior is only getting worse. I am afaid he is going to hurt the 3 year old during one of his fits, as he already hits him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!