Do you talk to your signficant other about your concerns for their child/your step child?
I guess everyone who has decided to enter into a relationship with someone who has children has struggled with dealing with this: what do you do when you are concerned about the decisions being made that relate to your stepchild/children? I am sometimes concerned about how my husband handles certain things relating to his 10 yr old son (he spends weekends with us). Do you talk to your significant other about what you see? Do you keep it to yourself? I find when I try to say something to him, he shuts down so I have pretty much stopped raising any concerns to him. It bothers me to not say anything, both the perception that I do not care because I don't say anything and also I genuinely am concerned about some things. Any advice out there as to your personal experiences with this?