I am hoping to get some suggestions on dividing up the chores fairly. We are having a major issue over this. I have a 14 & 10 year old who spend have of there time each week at their dads house. My fiance has a 12 & 9 year old who's mother passed away so they are in our home full time. We are having a big problem with my fiances children feeling like they are stuck doing most of the work in the house. I feel like my children should be required to work when they are at our house but when they are gone for 4 days at a time they should not return home to a huge list of chores to do. I am hoping someone can give me some pointers in how to best handle this problem.