please help i dont know what else to do!!!!
My soon to be step son is almost 4 he is with us on the weekends. He seems to be a little slow, he doesnt know his colors, numbers, only some animals, has a speech problem. In the past year i've finally gotten him potty trained (he doesnt have a very good mother)in the past few months he has started peeing on himself which has now escalated to pooping on himself. he woke us up at 200 this morning crying bc he had pooped himself and took his pullup off and put his shorts back on and smeared poop all on his face hair and mouth. he gets in trouble and pooped and peed on himself 3 times after that. he actuall stood beside the toilet and pushed and tried to poop on himself until i caught him. Then when you put him in time out he pulls his pants down and pees on the floor and all over clothes laughing.He also gets up in the middle of the night and stands in his baby sisters and brothers (3 months and 15 months) room over their crib just staring at them. he lies and says that ppl beat him and do bad things to him (never sexual) and these ppl havent been around him in weeks but will say that they threw him through a wall just a few minutes ago. He does things to be very spiteful. He doesnt have the best home life with his mother. she does not work and lives off child support and the government. they sit in the house all day and do nothing but watch tv. she also has a bad addiction to prescription pills. i dont know what to do! its starting to take its toll. His father has tried spanking, taking toys away, time out, standing in the corner, reprimanding, taking toys away anything we can think of. Please help!!!