Inlaws and special needs child
I do not know how to handle my in-laws anymore. We have a 3 year old son born with down syndrome. My in-laws do not treat him well. My father-inlaw idea of giving him attention is to rub his head and say hey boy. He has never spent a night with them but yet they have another grandson that is age 5 that has been staing with them since birth. My husband told them that we thought they were showing favorites and they said that they did not start keeping there other grandson until he was potty trained. Well our 3 year old is not potty trained yet so he can not stay with them. I think it is bullcrap. Or just an excuse.
They have gone 2 months without seeing there grandson even though we live 2 houses down from them. They even have a myspace page and they have everyone of there grandchildrens pictures on it except our sons.
Help me I do not know what to do anymore. We moved 5 hours away from my family. We had a house built down from theres thinking things were going to be great. I spend most of my time alone. They spend allot of time with there other grandchildren but not ours. When they talk about there other grandchildren they are always saing things like he he is so smart for his age etc.