Looking for Wisdom - Boy (17) consequences
My son is 17. I posted a discussion on wheather to leave him home on Easter because he is so disruptive. I did leave him home , but got him a basket and called to tell him I love him and would love it if he could respect the other family members and me.
I am asking for advice now on consequences for his behavior.
I would like some suggestions on consequenses and restitution (our most recent therapist told me he should make restitution every time he does wrong) ... He does not have anything I can take from him. He had a game system, but he sold it for pot. All he has is clothes,shelter and food. His violations are things like:
- Stealing from his brothers bank (did that today)
- punching hole in wall
- Breaking into my bedroom
- eats everyones share of food items
- drastically messy
- smoking cigarettes and pot
- drinking alcohol