I have been separated for over 2 years now, divorce will be final in January due to delays with the court... not my own choice. My ex left me and moved in with his GF who has 2 children of her own. He claims to be this reformed family man who never was this way for me. I have only recently started dating, and I have met a great guy (I have not introduced my 4 yr old son to anyone yet). But my problem is I feel like I am not good enough as a mother because I do not have the family unit my Ex has. I am a single mom who does it all, so I'm feeling I do not have the same amount of time with my son as he does... He has help with dinner chores bills etcI would just like to know if anyone else has this feeling of inadequacy, I don't want my son to grow up thinking I'm not good enough or not want to be with me on my time because I'm not the fun one.