SUCH MUCH HATE
I have 5 siblings the only one I do not get along with is my older sister. We never got along even as youngsters. It seems as the years pass on she become more hostile towards me. I do not live up to her expectations. She a divorced (no kids), church going woman who reads the Bible, quotes the Bible. I'm divorced with 2 teen boys. According to her I am a sinner because I do not attent church on a regular basis. I do believe in GOD but just don't go to church. She would call my boys to iquire if we went to church, or the cemetery to pay respect to my deceased parents. Then call and blast me for not going. She judges my decisions and is always negative. My mom would say, "just do as your sister wants she means well."
NOW HERE COMES THE LAST FIGHT...
This truly was my fault not intentional mind you.
Christmas Day my brother and I were to have dinner at my sisters house (no other guests), she lives 1-1/2 hours away. 20 minutes before dinner was to be served I called to say we were running late. She was livid on the phone, told me not to bother to come. My brother convenienced me other wise...after all, it was Christmas. We drove 1-1/2 hours to her house just before we got there, she called and blasted the both us with a harsh, sharp tongue, hurtful words. My brother let her vent and asked her if she felt better. This ticked her off even more and told us not to come, but we just pulled into her driveway. Again, stated she did not want us to come. No problem, we left our gifts on her steps and had dinner at another relatives house. This really [filtered word]ed her off. She wanted to leave me and my brother with no place to go. But other relatives opened the home to us on Christmas Day. That night upon arriving home my sister left several nasty, harsh, hurtful messages, name calling etc. on my answering machine. WAIT it gets better... then sends a mass email to all the siblings stating I am rude, inconsiderate, selffish, self absorbed, self saturated, munipulative. She returned the Christmas gifts we gave her. We have not spoken to each to each other since December. What makes a sister hate another so much??