I am a mother of  a 2 1/2 year old boy (3 in Nov), he
has always been very sweet and gentle and kind and most of the time,
listened really well...I have raised him on my own since he was born
and have always had my methods of discipline. Now, I am going to be
getting married in 6 months and my fiancee has a son froma 
previous relationship who is also 2 1/2 (3 in Dec)! We were so excited
that the boys were the same age and that we as parents were going
through the same stages with our children. All of this being said, I
have noticed a drastic change in my sons behavior since the two boys
have hung out. My fiancee's son listens to his father immediately, but
he was also very rough with my son in the beginning, loud as well...I
am noticing these are traits that my son is displaying now! And it
seems as though my fiancee has less tolerance for my sons actions than
his own! We have argued this topic over and over again, and seem to
always end up back at square one. I, most importantly, want whats best
for my son, (obviously there are several issues going on here), but
most importantly, how should I handle my son when he gets out of hand?
I have done everything from time out, to getting his park privileges. I
need help!