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older kids vs. babies

I have an 11 mo. son and a 2.5 yo. son with my husband. We also have my 12 yo. stepdaughter living with us since September of last year.

She loves my 11-mo. son and always plays with him, pushes him in the stroller,wants to help feed him or change his clothes, etc but is so mean to our 2.5 yo. She doesn't want him in her room or touching her stuff or watching cartoons. Typical things that all little boys do to torment their big sisters. It is getting to the point that I get scared to leave him and her in the same room and go into another room unless my husband is present.

If anybody knows anyway to foster them together please help.