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ji

confrontation

ok so im not a parent or anything like that. just a concerned and a bit of an angry older sister. ok so my younger brother is ten and i've found out hes been watching porn. i havent seen it but if i say were to go through my search history on a day i havent been on and only he was on i would find pornagraphic things. now my mother, she suspects since im the older one that its me, and im not into that.my mom is more of a lecture-wont-let-you-talk-while-shes-ranting-or-any-other-time-for-that-matter type of person. i was wondering what should i do to confront my brother and get my mom to believe it wasn't me?



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mayamay
Invite your mom and your brother to have a conversation together. When you are all sitting there, talk about why you think porn is a waste of time. Invite your brother and mom to share their thoughts about porn.
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simplyloved
I 2nd what this poster said..you need to get them together and see what your brother says..if you can I would make out like a time form and have him sign it when he gets on and when he is off. Now I believe this is when he will get caught..not only is this not good for him but sweetie, it could really send mix messages and I'm sure your mom would not want to deal with him when he becomes sexually active..good luck
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supermommy123
You must talk with your mum and your brother about the matter frankly and ask your brother what makes him to watch that material.
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aaryana
Communication is the answer to your concern. This time its not about who is and who's not watching those porn site, BUT on how to be able to let your younger brother understand that it is not good for him at a young age. Help you mom help your younger brother to go through this stage in his life. Bless you!