Violent tendencies of an 11 yr old in after school care
There is an 11 yr old boy that is in after school care with my 10 yr old daughter.
This boy has hit my daughter on two separate occasions. The first happened when she was in 4th grade. She wouldn't give him what she was playing with and he shoved her so hard she fell back and hit her neck on a table. This past fall he tried to take something from her again, started pinching her arm, she told him to stop several times then slapped his hand and told him to stop again and he slapped her across the face so hard it left a print then yanked her hair so hard some of her hair came out. Yesterday my daughter came home telling me that this boy was hit in the head with a ball, accidentally, while playing on the gym floor and he yells "What the f***!" He also kicked a boy to the ground and continued to kick him while he was curled up in a ball.
I have discussed with the teachers in afterschool care and their supervisor, had it put on file and even spoken to his mother on the phone prior to yesterday. The supervisor told me she thought he had a crush on my daughter and that might explain why he acts out toward her. The problem is he acts out toward others as well.
I am worried about what this child is capable of doing and am afraid that someone will end up seriously hurt. What is the best way to handle this? I'm documenting incidents and dates. I know if he touches my daughter again I may very well have him "arrested" on assault charges.