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Tonya39

with the new year in school not far away

awhile back i put a post about my daughter having teachers calling home about her talking about kids and starting trouble and how she was just having issues that were just plain being the typical SNOB we had made so much progress but now it is like we have took a few steps back and she is starting to have some of the old actions come back i feel this is because school is getting closer we have been working on this alot this break we have went to a soup kitchen and made donations ,we have helped in a home for children who have next to nothing and she was always so nice she had not been talking about kids clothes or hair for a while but last night it hit hard while at a party and then this morning i caught her talking to a friend about a girls clothes from the party all the giggles and bad stuff came pouring out i had thought we had got through this the friend that used to be a so called private friend when no one was around has become part of my daughters clique and her mom is thrilled but now she has started the nasty snob attitude also so now we are both at a lost trying to help them it is a group of a few of girls and now we have found out that all but one will be in the same room as our daughters the school will not think about spliting the girls up we were told the lists have been made and they can not adjust them i can not take another year of all this my fear is if she is with them all again i will never get her to see what she does is not right



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acitez

Where much is given, much is expected. It sounds like you are giving her opportunities to develop character. It is her choice whether she develops character or not, that is why it is called character.

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acitez

Where much is given, much is expected. It sounds like you are giving her opportunities to develop character. It is her choice whether she develops character or not, that is why it is called character.