My daughter had a toxic friend that tried to ruin her life, her relationships with other friends. My daughter was so concerned about what this person was doing she had failing grades, would get sick and not want to go to school, caused problems home with mom, dad, and brother. While I think most of it is over, just wondering what other Mom's have had to deal with this problem and what you did? Here is an example of what type of friend this girl was (a combination of all three).
The Betrayer as a Toxic Friend:
Nothing hurts more than a friend who betrays you. The betrayer is truly a toxic friend.
The Judge as a Toxic Friend:
Ever judgmental, ever critical, this friend can erode your self-esteem. The judge is a fault finder. You can rarely do anything completely right with this toxic friend.
The User as a Toxic Friend:
This person only has friends as long as he/she can use them for some purpose or goal of his/her own. This person could be the most harmful of toxic friends.
I think this girl was compensating for her own lack of self esteem and my daughter was vulnerable because she has know this girl since they were 3 (now 14). I think my daughter is now able to cope but I have my eyes open and hope she does too!