My 14 yr old got caught shopt lifting at Wal-mart with 3 of her friends and after it is all said and done only two out of four were in trouble my girl and one other. Wal-mart did not call police just parents and they stole $130.00 worth they had to give it all back and pay 4 Ways. kay is grounded for 4 weeks no computer no phone and no spending the night with anytime and 40 hours of community service per me.Also she paid with her own money. I hope this makes an impression on her I would like to have some other opinions and maybe help someone out in my position. kay already volunteers at my hospital but only three hours a week,so that means alot more hours to do in 4 weeks. WE volunteer at a Soup Kitchen 6 hours the last two Saturdays it has helped tremendously.. we see homeless and hear their stories and serve food to them.. I don't think she will steal again???