My daughter and her BFF collected money for UNICEF on Halloween. My daughter forgot to hand it in on Monday, but then kept the money saying it was too late to hand in. We took her to the school principal, made her make restitution (return the money + an equal amount of her own), and grounded her for a month. The principal also had her write a letter of apology to the sponsoring teacher.
Her BFF also kept the money she collected, but her mom apparently let her keep it. Both parents are unemployed but that is not an acceptable excuse in my opinion.
I do not want my daughter to go the other girl's house, but may let her come to mine where she can be supervised. My dilemma is what if anything should I say to the other mom? Should the school be notified?