'm now convinced my son wears mine and his 18 year old sister's
panties. I had suspsion for a couple years now, and now that I think
about it the signs were there for awhile. My son is currently 20, so 2
years older than his sister, and is 100% straight, I know that for a
fact, and is perfectly normal....

I remember once when he was 13
or 14, one of my individual pad packet was open - it wasn't me, nor his
sister as she was only 11 or 12 at the time. My husband said something
to him jokingly, but serious tilt along the lines of "you know, kotex
isn't toliet paper", my son responded, either play dumb or he really
didn't do it, when he said "what's kotex?".....That christmas, when he
was 14, I bought my daughter some panties, a couple weeks later I was
putting his clothes away, and I found 2 in his draw - asked him what
they were doing there, he said he didn't know. Could have easily gotten
mixed in by mistake, so I didn't think much of that, until recently.

When
he was 17, he was incredibly upset that he couldn't find something. So
I offered to help. He was so angry, he wasn't fully aware, I don't
think, of what happened......I opened one of his desk draws to look,
and I believe I saw 6 or so pairs of panties - mine and his sisters.
When I closed the draw, I hestitated, not really believing what I just
saw.....He must have realized this because 2 hours later, he said look
one more time, and he inentionally had that draw open, but the panties
were replaced with objects, something a long the lines of a yellow
highlighter for a yellow panty. Not sure what to make of this, I said
nothing.

In the summer before he went to college, he was 18. I
walked in mid-morning to tell him to do some chores when he woke up,
and I see him on the floor, between a bed and a wall, no shirt on
covered with a blanket. He told me he fell out of bed. I left. Walked
in 2mins later to see if he was ok, he still sat there dazed, and when
I started to come closer, he said don't as he tried sleeping naked for
the first time, and later that day revealed to me he was "practicing
for college sleeping on only one side of the bed" (He has a double at
home). Not sure if he was telling the truth and is just a silly
concept, or a weak excuse and was wearing a pair of panties?

One
last event, if you will - this one minor. When he and his sister were
home from school this past easter, there was a thong in the dryer. It
wasn't mine, because I don't wear thongs, and I didn't think it was my
daughters, because I buy most of her clothes with her. So I put it in
her pile, assuming she must have went shopping. Later that day, I
notice that thong gone - she was out all day, so it had to be my
son......

Then, he was home this past weekend, just because he
wanted to be. I was looking through his closet, tyding up a bit, and I
saw like a pouch/small bag or something, it was open and had well over
20 pairs of panties -- most were mine and his sisters, but quite a few
I didn't recognize (such as the thong above), and I KNOW he's not
buying them, so I fear he is taking them at school, possible from the
laundry room? I don't know though. Went he went back to school, that
bag was gone, so I guess he brings it to school too.

A few other details:
- I'm pretty sure one night a year or two ago, I saw a brim of a panty over his boxers, not sure.
-
One night when he was 18 or so, I was giving him a good night kiss, and
just rubbing/patting his bottom for affection, and it felt to me silky
and a sharp cut off like a panty line? Not sure, but I now suspect he
was wearing one of my satin panties?
-Lastly, over the years I've
noticed some of my panties ripped, and some slowly dissaperaing - I
thought maybe naturally worn out and perhaps
lost/misplaced/accidentally thrown out? But now it's definitely my son.
My daughter must notice her underwear missing too, but I guess she
doesn't know that her own BROTHER is taking and wearing them

I
now know for at least 6 years he's been wearing panties and keeping
them, that belong to me, his sister, and possible a few strangers.

We
have a good relationship, but I'm shocked! Total disbelief. I don't
know what to do or say? How can I bring this up to him? Should I be
concerned? Does he need help?

He's now a 20 year old sophomore
in college, he's not gay I know that for sure, and he's basically a
normal guy, that's why I can't believe this......