Not sure what to do...and still really angry
I found out on Saturday that my 15y.o. Daughter got naked for her boyfriend. I was upset with her about something and didn't think she was being honest with me so I and asked to look at her phone (as I'm allowed since I pay the bill). Scrolling through her messages I came across one that stated she would get naked for her boyfriend. I immediately asked her to explain this text to me. After an hour of "I don't knows" and "just because", I finally found out that she had gotten naked in front of him about 2 months ago. According to her, no touching, etc...but now he seems to be ready to "do more". She told him that she isn't ready, he doesn't understand but she told me that she may be ready soon. URGH...!!! She doesn't regret the getting naked for him and said it isn't a big deal. I am so angry with her but trying to temper it because I don't want to shame her because that isn't right either but they are TOO YOUNG and really not mature enough to be doing these things. She is so smart except when it comes to this boy. I can't trust her judgment when it comes to him but I can't get her to hear me when it comes to sexual stuff. I can't talk to my family about it because I don't want it to change how they view her (she's my only child and the first grandchild). Her father is no help, he will go crazy and try to lock her up and none of my friends have teenagers so they really don't relate to anything I am going through. I'm angry, I'm scared, I'm so tired and feel like I can burst into tears at any moment. I always thought I'd handle this stuff when it came around but honestly I didn't think it would be at 15.