We have some concerns re our 13 y o daughter.
We found in her school diary recently some disgusting comments of a sexual nature, put there by herself and some friends. We spoke to her strongly about this and informed the school. She was grounded for a month - reduced to 2 weeks for 'good behaviour'!
We had a good chat this week about it again from the point of view of her self esteem and self respect.
We were horrified yesterday when we found a screwed up piece of paper in her pocket. She had been playing 'consequences' it seems with another girl in class,and the language was sexually explicit - I would go so far as to say obsene!
We have discussed this with her. She said it is an old piece of paper from before the last episode. This we are not sure wether to believe her - why have it in her pocket for so long?
My wife is extremely upset about this and is going to see the Head Of Year. She has also told our daughter that she is seriously considering moving her from the school as it appears she has got in with the ' wrong crowd'.
Anyone else experienced anything like this? Are we treating this too seriously - we know 13 year olds will be curious abot sex, but feel this is torally inappropriate.
Would welcome others' views.