I found a pipe in my daughter's room what do I do?
Last night we found a pot pipe (no pot thankfully ) in my daughters room, she was over a friends house and i didnt call her or do anything since it was late . I am not for certain how to react to this, she has never given me any reason not to trust her and she's a pretty good kid. What should I do as punishment? I'm certainly going to ground her, take away the cell phone ect, but how do I make sure that this wont happen again?? I was thinking about not saying anything except leaving the box empty with a note, to see if she will come to me and talk. I always want to leave the communication line open ended but Im so mad right now im afraid of how Im gonna react.. any advice out there??