How to confront
I'm not a parent but a concerned older sister and I figured this is relevant enough to post here.
I have a younger brother who is 15 (about to turn 16). My mom and brother have the same cell phone and about a year ago my mom opened his by accident and found text and picture messages alluding to using alcohol, weed and chewing tobacco. The issue was dealt with and we've moved on.
Being the older sister, I have still been suspicious/concerned that he's mixed up with this stuff. I just went through his text messages while he wasn't home and found that he is still using chewing tobacco. Granted it could be a lot worse, but it still bothers me.
Is there a way to confront him in a passive aggressive way without admitted I went through his phone? I found this website I want him to see with facts and pictures about what can happen from using chewing tobacco but I don't know how to go about it.
Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated!