Help with my step teen daughter
I really need help because i am too the point where i could blow my top. My step daughter is all into her self, she expects everyone to do for her and if i want a favor and ask her for one she blows up and goes on her (nobody loves me and i only see my father so and so and u are trying to take that away from me) I just didn't even bother.. i just said never mind and forget about it, but what have i should have said. She is so sassy and don't care about anyone else except herself. Even her mother agrees with me, it is bad when she don't get along with her mother, so she is living 2 weeks with us and 2 with her grandmother, because she can't stand to be around her monther.. If i talked to my mother the way she talks to hers, i would have got a smack in the mouth, (not really but u know what i mean) I have more respect.. Now a days the kids have no respect but they expect us to do anything for them and take them here and pick them up when ever they snap there fingers. oh and give them money when every they need it.. Not me. I was raised alittle bit different and i am not going to take it from a 15 year old telling me what to do and when to do it.. is that bad?? My husband don't say anything because he thinks that if he says somthing bad, she will hate him.. they were fighting about something, and i just said something and she looked at me and said in her teenage tone I WASN"T TALKING TO YOU
I fliped i was so up set that i was shacking.I didn't say anything i just got up and went in the bedroom.. My husband did take up for me and she stormed out telling him to kiss her A**. SO i asked her for a favor and she went blastic, so i am upset. i have decided that when she comes to stay with us she needs some rules, because before then we didn't give her any rules because we thought that everything would be fine.. but i think she needs rules here.. so how should i go about it, its not bad rules, just clean your bedroom, bed to be made before school, no computer after 11pm on school nights. 11pm to bed on school nights. Is this to strict or what should i do.. My husband is away right now and will be home soon.. but i really can't take it anymore.. I need help and advice.. Her mother tried counlsing and that didn't work, so what should i do. If it don't get anybetter it might distroy my marriage. HELP!!!!!!