It seems like all of the kids drink and I don't know how to handle it. My son, Eli, says he's not drinking and I want to believe him, but I think I am playing the fool. I don't want to harass him. Maybe I should follow him one night and see if I can catch him. My friends think I'm stupid to believe him - they say that all the kids are drinking and why do i think he's so special that he's not? Good question. I don' think he'd lie to me.... what should I do?