My daughter is 16 be 17 in jan she was with a boy for a year and they broke up it was hard on her and i was worried about her for a bit (first heartbreak) but she has bounced back and im proud of her. She's a good girl but just yesterday she came to me and asked me for my opinion and permission to be able to date a 19 yr old she had been talking to for awhile. He's a friend of a friend so they had known eachother for 2 years. Im shocked and of course I instantly said no! I have always taught her to try and make good choices and learn by mistakes I have made when i was her age we talk all the time. I just feel like Ive hurt her feelings and i hate to see her hurt especially when its over a boy. What should i do?