Not even a step parent.
I'm going out with this guy. He has 2 wonderful children who only visit on the weekends. I was just wondering what I should do about some of their behavior thats a little confusing to me and maybe a little stressful (trying to know how to deal with it all.) I was talking to my mom and she said the kids are probably getting jealous. They will pull my hair. If I tell the one who does it to stop, they don't. (he's 7 right now) He'll pull my hair, push on my stomach, and mess my hair up. I was just wondering if this was appropriate behavior especially toward someone who's not even related to them, also wondering how I should handle the situation. Should I talk to my boyfriend about what's going on? The behavior seems to be reinforced by his family, because the children will also to do it to his sister (pull her hair, push her stomach in, etc.) it's uncomfortable behavior and it's not very fun for me, that's for sure, lol. Also, another thing one of them (the 5 yr old) does is whenever I'm sitting next to their father on the couch, they always sit in between us to break us up (both of them, and then there's eventually no room on the couch to sit.) should I just deal with it and let them have their way or is there something I can do about this?? I'm not even sure if I should be worrying about it.