Is my marriage is over?
Did we all forget the vows in our wedding day? Well, it's been at least 10yrs. that I am still married. I have 2 beautiful little baby girls. I don't know where it went wrong.
We both had a ups & downs. But this time its been really downs. Well here are the list: we don't communicate well haven't been intimate, have lots of disagreements, parenting skill differ, pointing all the wrongs at eachother,..
He said about me: I get mad really easily when he talks to me. (*its the way his tells me) I curse at him. (*only when im really frustrated) He feels he does all the work when we go traveling. He said im a bad company cause i fall alseep on during the drive...(*i gotta take my short naps..what can we talk about? duh) He doesn't like my tone when disagree on things. All i do is blame. Well that is just what i could remember what he said about me. Now, it's my turn.
I said about him: I don't like that he doesnt' make time for me. He plays too many games or he's on his phone. We don't have grown up conversation. I feel his always negative on things/life. We still haven't went on a honeymoon...now that we got little ones..its too late. He's alway precaution. I wish he could open his eyes/think for himself. Everytime he asks for something its right there. Or waiting for my answer when he can't figure it out the simple things.
(*I do have lots of anger bottle up inside of me. He shuts me out when im willing to talk. Its never a good time to talk around our girls..blah, blah, blah. I believe if u wanna work out our relationship then nothing else should get in our way. Im always asking for therapy or counseling but he doesn't agree to it.
So tell me what you guys think...im lost!