Went out with my GF, broke up, got back together, broke up. get back together?
Me and my girlfriend were together for 4 months. Then she broke up with me because she really didn't know what she wanted in life. 2 weeks later she came running back and wanted to be with me again. So i decided to take her back. Everything was GREAT. things were so much better than they ever were and we were crazy in love. 2 months later she pulls the same thing. Breaks up with me and then tells me she has had feeling for this guy in the army. She told me shes had feeling for him for over a year now but she doesnt see a future with him because he's in the army and because he's a real jerk but still likes him anyway. well me and her have been talking for a few days and today i asked her to hang out. We havent seen each other for a month now so it was a little awkward at first then it was fine. I asked her about the guy in the army and she said that she just wants closure with him.Well we eventually kissed and hugged each other. then cried in each others' arms. : (
we hung out for like 4 hours and then we said goodbye and kissed/ hooked up again. When we got home we were texting and everything was like back to normal. Using <3s and saying how we missed each other and this and that. My question is: Is it stupid to take her back? And under what circumstances do i take her back?
Like I am really happy when i am with her. She's just very indecisive. And we agreed that we would take things veryyy slowly if we did want to get back. but first thing's first, She's got to get over the guy in the army. By the way.. i am 20 years old and she's 18 if that matters