Trying to bring back the past @ the good part neway (NO mean posts please....)
I and the parent of my child had been together for 4 yrs when my "significant other" decided that it be best for them to continue their "pattern of leave and go". Our son is 2 and will be 3 in August. The person they are "with" now just so happens to be the same "person" the other parent left me for 2 times before. It appears as if since WE had our child in 2005 that the other parent has begun acting immaturely. I.E. Joining gangs, getting arrested, smoking marijuana... Now we've had an awesome past together before the birth of our son, but we have been apart for 1 yr and 3 mos. The other parent never says they miss me. They say they missed what we had. They miss what we used to do and always bring sup the past. The person they are w/ now has cheated on them numerous times and even gave them an std. Has kicked them out and not to mention is 8 yrs their senior. Has no place to stay and works at a local market that is being shut down. I'm not trying to put them down but the parent of our child also is on ssi and probation. Anyway me and the other parent are in no relationship but after 8 mos of being seperated have become sexually reunited once again. I have stopped this but I still want to get bakc with them. They still live together but are struggling to stay where they are. The other parent gets jealous and htreatens me when I go out . if they think I am out w/ someone they'll try to call CPS on me. Crazy but signs they still care. They always want to talk but they're still w/ their significant other. There's no chance of reconciliationis it? Did I mention we're only 22.