very sad she has wasted her life over him it is hard to move on though when you get a scar like first love yes her and the earth thingy that is cause to worry but it is most likely she has never learned to let him go so seeing his home on there makes her feel closer to him i understand your concern if she does go back around him from what you said he will just use her for what you said seems to me he may be hung up on her in his on way to since he keeps allowing her back even with a wife and on the day after the wedding my god what was he thinking his wife should be real worried her feelings of not trusting him near her alone are true she must also realize they have a thing for each other still i feel sorry for both your sister and his wife but more so for his poor wife she has this threat who is out their the threat goes away and comes back year after year and now she is getting ready to have her world blown away again for your sister to say i will get him back i really do not think she cares about much as long a she can have him back even if it is just for a few hours to me it sounds like your sister will not give up she will always be waiting in the wind to pounce,the most you can do as a sister is be their for her good or bad she is still your sister ,love her that is what sisters do .from what i hear if she has not give him up it has been years she may never.

thanx i knw what you are saying i got her to agree to go to talk with someone before she acts on feelings she may or may not have i found a pic of his one yr old son and showed her that this is his family she would be giving him trouble she agreed but i still do not trust her not to find her ex behind my back ,she is a addict and he is her drug she will not give him until she is ready ..until i will always be there for her