My situation is a unique one. I first met my fiance our freshmen year of high school. We have been together 11yrs now. At times I had my thoughts about committing to a relationship too young and a few years ago we broke up for about a year due to that same thought. We eventually got back together and our relationship was better than ever. Before I continue she did cheat on me while we were in high school which led to our first break up we pushed through it as hard as it was. Fast forward to summer of '09 and my younger brother gets diagnosed with leukemia. She had just found a teaching job an I had just graduated and earned my degree. Being that my mother had to take leave and come up with my brother to be treated, 6hrs away from home, and my father had to work to support the family, I was the one to come up with my mom and bro for support. That same November I proposed and she said yes. Sadly my brother has relapsed twice and our plans have been put off again due to me coming up to support my brother and mom. My fiance recently blew up and said that she feels abandoned and she feels as I am going to keep her waiting forever. We ha a huge fight, she said she need "time", ripping my heart out, and a day later she says she is willing to try to work things out, she still says that she feels neglected. She's waited for almost 2yrs now. I offered to go home but she says its worse when i visit because she knows im going to leave again. Now my mom is very angry that she pulled this and I don't know what to do. I love her and I know she loves me, we both screwed up way back in the past but got through it all. I don't know what to do I'm just so confused. This is very hard considering the situation with my brother as well. He's doing good by the way.