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nennie82

"Is our marriage is over?" part 2

What is separation means to you? After 5 years, we both failed to change our ways. We still haven't went to see a marriage counselor! I don't believe being apart will help our relationship. But I guess I will do it for my husband.
We all got our list of things we need to be happy. So this was his last patience with me. I totally flip out at him over stupid things. I hold lots of anger inside of me that i in up getting mad.

I sometimes think what can i do or say differently before everything came out of my mouth.

Love has so many meanings. I still love him but he doesn't love me back. He said "i will always love you cause you are the mother to our girls." It is just so hard when we have kids.

I guess we will never change.



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junieg

Only you can make the change to yourself so what has been stopping you. Perhaps this is what you want deep down. If you wanted to make things work out I'm sure you would have a lot more to make things different. Perhaps this is just what was meant to be. Your children deserve happy parents whether they are together or not so that is the main consideration here.

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nennie82

I guess excuses is making me stop from changing. I lost myself in the relationship. It takes two to make things right. I feel like I created this mess. I'm so stubborn that i can't even see or hear my husband is telling me. Can that be vice versus?

How many people are in a marriage because its the right thing to do for their kids? It took me this long to final realize to make a change when things are going south. Im hoping for my husband and I can meet in the middle and find love all over. NO MORE EXCUSES! So here goes to a new journey.

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nennie82

I guess excuses is making me stop from changing. I lost myself in the relationship. It takes two to make things right. I feel like I created this mess. I'm so stubborn that i can't even see or hear my husband is telling me. Can that be vice versus?

How many people are in a marriage because its the right thing to do for their kids? It took me this long to final realize to make a change when things are going south. Im hoping for my husband and I can meet in the middle and find love all over. NO MORE EXCUSES! So here goes to a new journey.

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jimrich

At the risk of being banned from FEN.....

nennie82
re: How many people are in a marriage because its the right thing to do for their kids?
>> In my experience, being stuck between two unhappy parents is the very worst thing any kid will ever have to endure!
re: So here goes to a new journey.
>> for the sake of your kids, good luck.