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My fiancé feels like he doesn't need to help with kids because he works

I am twenty years old and I have a two year old and also a seventh month old so I guess you can say I'm pretty busy, and when my fiancé comes Home I wouldn't mind some help. Well here is the issue at hand... He works in the oil field and comes home every nite and sits in his mancave watches tv then take about a three hour shower then gets out and complains about the house constantly... I basically can never do anything right and in not allowed to be right and he will never admit that he is wrong ever well I ask him for help and he tells me well I worked all day while you sat around and did what he describes as nothing hmm well my definition of nothing is is laundry diapers dishes Time out bath time dinner time lunch time breakfast time cleaning cleaning cleaning cleaning and more cleaning I hardly even take care of myself anymore and the only time I get the chance to take a nice long shower is when I'm beat tired in the middle of the nite. I don't know if I'd like t deal with this for the rest of my life the whole I go to work so your my housekeeper babysitter and chef all unpaid minus the fact he pays bills but he doesn't buy me clothes, tends to break my things when he gets mad so now. I have no make up no curling iron and very few clothes to choose from. I don't want to leave him I'd rather approach him in a more unconfrontational angry way and maybe talk some sense into him as to how going to work al day dies not make him exempt from his responsibilities as a father. If you have any advice on a good way to
Approach this issue please let me know It would really help