ScottJames's picture
ScottJames

Life before and after marriage

Which life is better, before marriage or after marriage?



SnglDad's picture
SnglDad

As with most everything in life, it is what you make of it. Each has it's advantages.

ScottJames's picture
ScottJames

You are right but after marriage stage has come where the marriages will be ended on divorce.

2xstepmom's picture
2xstepmom

Any relationship may end though if one does not get married then there is no possibility of divorce.

SnglDad's picture
SnglDad

If a marriage ends, it does not mean that I, as a person, will end with it. I lived a full and enjoyable life prior to meeting that person, and I will continue to do so afterwards.

junieg's picture
junieg

This is a very personal issue and all depends on what kind of marriage you have, and the person you were married to surely. My marriage of 22 years started off great but by the end I could take the drunken abuse no longer, so of course life before marriage was better. I was left with all the trauma after marriage.
Luckily, I met a great guy who I have been with now for 17 years. We have talked about marriage, but this is not an important issue for us. We are happy the way we are.
Some people don't have this happy ending though and are still very much in love with the person they married. The person they married may have found someone or something else they prefer. In their case, life before marriage has to be better.

feelingunlucky's picture
feelingunlucky

Totally changes. But in some cases it don't! It actually depends on your in-laws.

Kara's picture
Kara

It depends on the in-laws, i agree with FeelingUnlucky