How do I get my daughter back *cry*
I'm new to this and none of my friends can help me so I thought I would try this. Hoping someone out there could give me some advice. I divorced my 1st husband 10yrs ago when my daughter was a couple of years old, she is now 12, nearly 13. Since then we have never been apart. I had remarried happily for 8yrs and have a another daughter now 6yrs old. Up until now we were a seemingly happy family. My daughter being preteen thinks everything revolves around her, her mood swings, her grumpiness we thought was her hormones..Until the fateful day about 3weeks ago when a normal lunch at mums ended up being the worse day of our lives. My family have always interferred with everything and I seem to be the one to do things for everyone except myself. I think im a good mum, i love my kids and protect them and do the best that i know how. My husband was reprimanding my older daughter and my sister and mum intervened, they had never really accepted my husband. My mum rang my ex husband and told him my husband consistently yells at my daughter for no reason and he should come get her. So he did and she wanted to go with him. Now she wont talk to me or my husband, says she hates us and said she doesnt want to talk to me every again. Ive tried everything, but now its nearly 4 weeks and she still feels the same. We have never been apart for longer than a couple of days and Im finding it really hard to cope. How do I get her back, how do i repair this? Ive apologised, ive begged, i dont know what else to do????