help am i just being silly?
Ok, so this is the problem i have.
I am married to a great guy and my mil and fil are fab. The problem is with my bil and his wife to be. they are not married yet and she calls them mum and dad and gives them cards and presents on their b'days and on mother's and father's day.
It feels like she is trying to compete with me, as the in laws were told about them wanting to get married a few months after we got married and ever since then i have not had a chance to have my first mothers/father's day and their b'day's with them cuz she has had some existance in this.
wot really got to me was that is was her b'day and they wanted to give her a card that said dil and when me and my hubby were dating they just got me a happy b'day card.
they say they treat everyone the same, but to that isn't and looks like they are favouring her when she aint even part of the family yet.
So what to you guys think? I think i feel threatened by her as she wants to get in there and be part of the family already, cant you wait until it is your time? I feel as thos she has rained on my parade when it was meant to be me as the newly wed!! I feel gutted and no good. My husband tries to reassure me but when we fight, it isn't even about us, it is the sil to be!!! Please help me!!!