Girlfriend wants to be #1 Don't know what to do?
My girlfriend has 2 kids 5 and 10 years old. My kids are 15 and 18 years old. I work at a job were I can spend 1 day with each on the weekend. I do see my girlfriend during the week just us for a few hours. I spend Saturday with my kids and Sunday with her and her kids. I know this is maybe wrong but trying to make the relationship work. My girlfriend says that I spend time with my kids is wrong. I like doing stuff with my boys that are older now and they enjoy spending time together. Because I spend 1 day with my kids as father is wrong and that she should get both days. My girlfriend says that my boys should spend there 1 day with her and her kids and then I should spend the other day with her kids and her. I did all the little kids stuff years ago. I don't want to do that anymore. She also mentions that her kids need a father figure in there lives. Her kids have a father. Is it wrong that I want to spend time with my kids? Is it wrong that I should make my kids or force them to do little kids stuff when they don't too. What should I do or advice. I am so frustrated that I am ready to give up on my girlfriend.