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jabrown

contemplating divorce

I'm new to this website and, honestly, I came here to get some support from others. I don't feel that i can discuss this with family or friends and I am hoping to get some unbiased advice, support, etc. For me, this is a place where I can be completely honest with myself and about myself without being judged..is that weird? :)

I moved to Canada a few months ago with my husband and two kids and honestly, I dont know what to do (side note I don't want this to turn into a poor me story either).

My husband and I had a conversation just last week. He isn't happy. I'm not happy. He would rather spend time with people from work than with me. He says that I should meet friends and I say that I would rather spend time with my husband. Anyway, I really don't believe that he will ever be happy with our family. So in my mind, I feel like we are destined for divorce.

I have no clue what to do...I'm in another country with no one, I don'teven know at this point where I would get a divorce...the US? Canada? Either way I think we would have to be separated for a year and I'm certainly not going to stay here by myself.

I dont know...what info is important to know? Does anyone have advice to share? Really, anything is appreciated, even if I'm being an idiot and should suck it up. Thank you