Strangers In The Home With My 3 Year Old
I am DESPERATE for some advice! My ex looks after our daughter while I work. After discovering a website called couchsurfers.com, he has started allowing COMPLETE strangers to stay at his house overnight, sometimes for several nights. He thinks it's a fun way to meet people and I am sick with thoughts of someone possibly molesting or abducting or somehow harming our little girl. He calls them all "friends" and allows them to use her room. On those nights she sleeps with her dad. Except when a woman ends up in his room for the night, then she is told to go back to her own bed. I think it is gross all of these strange people use her room and bathroom. It is also an invasion of her space. I am worried about what sort of trust messages this is sending our daughter. How will she learn who is a stranger, who is someone she can trust? I have tried to talk to him about my concerns and he completely blows me off. He says he never leaves her alone with anyone. I can't imagine him waking her up or taking her away from her TV program when he leaves to use the bathroom or grab something from another room. It would only take a minute for her to be sexually assaulted or abducted. One time he texted me about a guy that was staying at his house and said that the guy was "freaking (him) the f*** out". But he still thinks it's totally safe to have these weirdos around our daughter.
What should I do?????????????