My child is very quiet and shy -
I was attending a afternoon school function with my 5year daughter. The children were sitting up front on the floor, and the parents behind them. When the show was over, my daughter came up to me crying. I kept asking her what was wrong. At first I thought someone maybe accidently stepped on her. But then I smelled something and saw something on her pants. She had an accident in her pants (#2). She told me crying to take her home. I immediately left the place. I felt embarrased for her but also at the same time, mad. She doesn't have accidents in bed or anywhere else. But my daughter is a very quiet and shy girl. She won't speak up. So in the car I kept asking her why didn't she get up to tell me. She said that there was alot of kids, and she didn't want to move. I was very frustrated, and I went home and cried. I thought that her punishment was to sit in her mess for awhile. But I think that is harsh punishment. How do I get my child to speak up?