i need step mom advice
I'm soon to be married and the guy I'm marring has 2 kids from a previous marriage and after his divorce his ex wife took his kids from him for a while. Well a few mouths ago she started allowing him to see his kids again (i got to meet them for the first time) I'm loving them there's just one problem he terrified she going to take them away again . he wont let me disaplane the two yr old even when he leave her with me while he runs to the store or something. Any time his ex ask him to take them so she can go whatever she does (even if we had plans)he does so she wont take the kids away again. it to the point where i can't make plans unless they can be easily postponed or fit 2 small kids into the mix.
i think she is taking advantage of the fact that hes scared she'll take them how do i get him to stand up to her so we can have a life together that doesn't revolve around trying not to up setting" his ex.
i don't even think she'll take them away again