MY eight year old duaghter came home in tears today from school saying she got into trouble and to WATCH HER BACK!!!!!!!!!!! from another child  in her class, their is a personality clash but this girl is starting to effect my daughters learning, I have discussed this with the school and feel I am getting nowhere. This behaviour she is bringing home and starting to bully her brother. I need help does anyone have ideas. The other thin is I am a teacher and have to take the teacher hat off on this one and put my child first. I don't work at her school so I can't ensure she is not being bullied at lunchtime.

Didn't want these issues to get lost in the madness. Anybody have an idea?

The school shld have a policy on bullying. I wldn't let up on this. Find out as much info as you can from your daughter. Do you know the other girl's parents? Maybe talk to them. Stay as involved as you can, and badger the school until they do something to fix the situation. Teach your daughter to stand up to this girl and defend herself if she has to. In no way shld this be interfering w/ your daughter's learning. If nothing changes, get a lawyer. Even just the threat may light a fire under the school's behind to take action. If all else fails, consider changing schools or homeschooling if that's even an option for you. I sympathize w/ what your daughter's going through, and I hope the situation resolves itself quickly. Your daughter's safety shld be your main concern. Good luck.