My EX wants her new husband to adopt my son
Here is my story. 34 years old I was divorced back in 2001, had 1 child from that marriage(son). Found out later that she was cheating on me with the guy she is married to now. Since then they have moved back and forth to kentucky. which is where they live now. the job i had back home was paying enough for me to travel all the time back and forth to kentucky. I met my new wife almost 2 yrs ago, when we got married my son was not to happy with that, because after the divorce i told him it was going to be just me and him. well as you know by now i am married and i have a daughter on the way. which brings me to this. my ex called over the weekend and said to me that my 11 yr old son wants to be adopted by the step dad. her other reasoning was that if something happens to her she does not want my son to go to me. I told her no that this was not acceptable and i will not sign the papers which then she said she can take me to court and raise my child support. i now live in illinois and have a good job, but i am having a terrible time with this because i do not come from a divorce family and i do not know what my son is going through because he doesnt want to talk to me. i am scared and upset that my ex is saying that my son wants this. not only does it mean that he will no longer by law be my son but it wipes out my whole family as well. my ex said all i am doing is thinking of myself but i am not i am thinking of my family and how much they love him.