My daughter's ADHD is a result of the birth mom taking Meth amphetamines (making it a secondary condition). Morgan is taking Guanfacine (generic for Tenex). I went for a day without her taking meds, and noticed a big difference (she had a difficult time following directions and staying on task). The medication helps her focus. I don't care for meds either but I have to do what is in Morgan's best interest not mine.  I did have her do neurofeedback through the Drake Institute. I helped a little bit. There is a book that I use called 1 2 3 Magic by Thomas Phelan, Ph.D. With those whom have ADD/ADHD you have to follow through with discipline and this book gives me guidelines in an easy to read way. Because Morgan was born hydrocephalic (aka water on the brain), she needed an extra vein (that's the shunt) to drain the fluid into the abdomen.

First of all, I'd like to say, what a noble thing you've done adopting a special needs child. Although it's difficult to see these children struggle, it's also rewarding to see how much they progress w/ the appropriate treatment and love. Although we've never adopted a child, our son also has special needs. He's 4 and has not yet been officially diagnosed. We don't know why our son was born w/ these difficulties, but we have gotten him all the help we can, and we've seen tremendous progress in him. We are truly proud of our son for how far he has come. We would never trade him for anything! I took your advice and ordered the book "1 2 3 Magic". My husband and I still have our difficult days (w/ both our children), and we cld always use some extra advice. Thx!

Hi Scooby,
What a great job you're doing! I just rec'd the 1-2-3 Magic book I ordered, and I'm anxious to give it a go. Also, love your idea of classical music CDs. We had a few when my boys were babies, but haven't played them in a while. I'll have to dig them out of the archives. I seem to remember they soothed my kids, and put them right to sleep. Thx!

Hi Scooby,
How r things w/ you? Thx for the recommendation on the book for kids to read. I'll look into it. Right now, my kids are only 4 and 3 (obviously not at reading level yet), but I suppose they cld benefit from the book in the future. Also, my kids LOVE any kind of music, but at night, I put the classical music on (like you suggested) and it definitely has a soothing affect on them. Thx for all your great ideas. I hope all is well on your end too.
Regards, concerned